Adjourning from a group is the most important part of working in a group. I have worked with groups before, granted not that many, and when it came time to adjourn, the group that was the hardest for me to leave was during my undergraduate degree. Being a part of the education club at Walla Walla University as an officer, the adjournment for our group was when we handed out bells to the graduating education majors. As officers, we had planned many events and met often to discuss plans. The day that we handed out the bells was the day before many of them in not all of them graduated. Everyone graduated that year but me, although technically we had a picnic much sooner to announce the new officers for the next year. The day that graduation happened was bittersweet for me. I was happy for them, but I wished that I could have been apart of it. I cried because I knew it was going to be another year before I would be graduating. I wish that we had stayed in better touch with each other, because we didn’t exchange contact information because they all were going their separate ways.
I imagine that when it comes to leaving the group of students that I have been working with since starting my Master’s degree, it will be difficult. I think that the adjournment period will probably take place during graduation. It also depends on when everyone ends up graduating. I expect that as we get ready to adjourn, we will be exchanging contact information or try to stay in contact with them somehow. I feel like the colleagues that I have been working with are a highly effective group and it is always a lot harder to say goodbye to a highly effective team than one that is not effective. When you say goodbye to a highly effective group, there will be tears. When you say goodbye to a group that is not effective, it is like you cannot wait to leave the group. When it comes to adjourning from my colleagues, I suspect that there will be some tears.
Adjourning is an important part of forming a team because unfortunately there will be times that you will have to leave people that you have been working with and move on to different groups. Everything in life has a beginning and an end. Everything that starts must adjourn. However, it does not mean that you cannot use the people that you have worked with as a resource to bounce ideas off of if you need to, when you are not working with another group.